When Going after what you really want in life remember this...
When you want to make a big change in your life, go after a scary goal or take things to the next level it can feel like a struggle or too hard, but remember…
You get to choose your hard. One can be a continual hard of NEVER getting what you really want, and the other can/may be hard at times until you get what you want and with way more fulfillment and growth, because it’s what’s in your soul and well, the other way just sucks.
A struggle only becomes a struggle if what you’re getting at the end is not really what you want, need or desire, or you’re just not willing to do what it takes. But if you’re creating something you want, truly want, then any struggle feels worth it, even when you’re dealing with the resistance, fear and self doubt.
Because when you start to take the steps to make things happen those things will rise, then you might start to question “Is it worth it?” or “maybe you just don’t need it really” or better yet “it’s a sign” that you should not pursue it.
But the difference between you – the one who can’t shake KNOWING and WANTING what you REALLY WANT and someone who doesn’t go after (and get) what they want is how they see that struggle, that resistance, that fear… Take if for what it is and keep on pushing through no matter what life throws at you, because life will throw challenges at you.
However, as you transform into the person you know you can be it gets easier, you become stronger and although life can still throw you a curve ball, you take it and roll with it, not because you’ve become fearless in the pursuit of what you want but because when you make changes and LIVE it, no only does it ripples into all aspects of your life, it changes you for the better because you’ve learned you can make things happen despite any challenges.
And because ultimately you know that deep deep down, you’ll keep going and you’ll get there because you’re not giving up.
The struggle IS real especially in the beginning of making life changes but the results are sooo worth it, and let’s be honest who the hell wants to play small in a world this big.
If you’re ready to create a game plan to make your big dreams happen then grab the ‘Dream It. Plan It. Get It Goal Getting Toolkit‘ and let’s go!
So Hello Life
Melanie x
